Hmmmmm o.o (innocent eyes smiley: tongue) Mr Beeeeeee, let me ask old man about this, I am still not quite getting it. lol sorry, I think I am getting brain dead or something.

Cheerleading is a group because of common interests and that is they like cheerleading.

I joined the school band because I like music, I dont know half of the people there even though I was in the band for 4 years and it is the same for many of them. There are all kind of different personailities of people in the band and not like we feel connected or something, it is just cus of common interests (i.e. music) that bring us together. We talk for hours about the music on how we can adjust our part to make the music more lively and expressive for the performance such as certain part percussion should go soft and let the winds play loud and we will mark it on our score sheets and so on.

what I am trying to say is clubs members seem to be a group because of common interests, but many of them do not speaks about their personal life except the things that is in the club aka their interests, so cheerleading may seem to be a group but you never know if they feel connect to one another as that is just the surface of what people see, but I could be wrong. smiley: roll

I don't go pub because I don't drink, I am a lousy drinker, I puke easily after a few rounds smiley: rollsmiley: rollsmiley: rollso I have no idea what you meant smiley: frown Give me some time and let me go pester the old man about it and I will get back to you. smiley: tongue

Is there any common interests among you and your friends?

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ok Mr Beeeeeeeee, after reading it the third time, I see a keyword, and that is connecting. Are you saying you want an entity that can help you to break the ice? and let you and your friends feel connected to one another?

And what is wrong with just offering your friendship? I think it is great to offer friendship and nothing else, such as no borrowing money or whines about how lousy their lifes or spouse or gf/bf is lol smiley: roll

Do you love it, say just the few of you, you and your friends, go to a cafe or pub (I think you prefer pub ;p) and just relax and drink a few rounds? and maybe just causally chat about the funny things being show on the TV in that pub?

Am I getting it right now? smiley: rollsmiley: rollsmiley: rollsmiley: roll



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Edited 3 times by BunBun Jan 7 16 11:26 PM.